MY LIFE... ONE DAY AT A TIME.

Birth Story (4 weeks late)

2011-10-26T23:01:00.000-07:00

So I want to apologize in advance for any errors and also the length of this :)

We were supposed to go in on September 25th so I would deliver on the 26th (my birthday), but they rescheduled without letting us know. We were rescheduled for the 28th so we would deliver on the 29th. We got the call to come in to the hospital around 5:00 p.m. They asked if we could be there at 7:30 p.m. to start the process. We arrived at the hospital around 7:00 and were settled into our room (Labor and Delivery room 5) by 7:30. My nurse came in and we filled out paperwork for about an hour… holy crap, can you believe trying to fill all of that out while in labor? I would DIE!!! They checked me (OUCH) and I was not dilated and my cervix was still tough. They started me on gels to soften my cervix. We did 3 cycles every three hours. It was kind of weird; the nurse would insert the gel, I would lie in bed for an hour and then walk the halls of the hospital for 30 to 45 minutes and then I would lie in bed for the rest of the time and then we would repeat the process. The night actually went by very fast. I thought it would drag on, but it was the opposite. Early in the morning I was checked again and with no change I was started on Pitocin.
Let me take a second to talk about my IV experience… holy moly! I was swollen, like everything was swollen. Even my wrists and hands were swollen so bad that my veins kept “rolling”. It took about 20-30 minutes to do my IV and it hurt like crazy. I could not believe that it could hurt that bad. I did however do awesome through the whole process. I was also great when my blood was taken.
Okay- back to the process  shortly after the Pitocin was started my doctor (Dr. Melissa Austin) can in to check me. I was about 1cm, she told me not to be a hero and to get my Epidural whenever I wanted and that she would be back in a few hours to break my water. I definitely wanted to make sure to get my magic juice before she came back to break my water. It hurt so badly when she would check me, so I wanted to make sure I was numb when she came back to break my water. I just want to mention that getting the epidural did not hurt at all!!! My IV hurt way worse and I didn’t even feel the epidural.
My nurses were amazing and I even had a male nursing student helping out. He was very excited and thankful that I let him help out because all of the other patients he asked said no.
I was not making much progress and was checked every two hours or so throughout the day. My contractions would get stronger and then die down. I was checked around 7:00 p.m. (reminder, I have been here for 24 hours at this point) and I was about 4cm dilated. 4cm? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Although, I wasn’t surprised, for some reason I just knew my body wouldn’t help me through this process. I eventually got to 5cm, but stopped making progress. At 10:00p.m. My doctor made the call to go ahead with a c-section. (In the beginning of my pregnancy I was told that I had an issue and would most likely have to go with a c-section. I researched and thought I had prepared myself mentally. My issue cleared up around my 4th month and I didn’t think about the c-section again.) After being told that I was going to have a c-section, I realized I was not mentally prepared and started to worry. I was also relieved because by this time I was shaking so bad from the epidural that it was a little scary. By 10:30 p.m. my nurse was getting me ready for my c-section and I had Connor at 11:00p.m.
The c-section experience is quite odd. I was wheeled in there, strapped down and when they were ready to start they brought Kevin in. It felt like Kevin had only been in there for a minute or so and Connor graced us with his presence. They showed him to us, but I missed it because I had my eyes closed. Right after Connor was born, Kevin went with him. We did take a few pictures and then Kevin left with the baby. I was in there for about 45 minutes to an hour while they were sewing me up and then was taken to recovery.
I was in recovery for about 20 minutes before Kevin and Connor came in. I didn’t expect to be so out of it. I could barely even talk; I was running a fever and was so hot! It did break my heart that I could hold my son when he was brought in to the recovery room. I couldn’t even lift my arms. It also broke my heart that I couldn’t feed him for the first time. It did however, let Kevin experience that first. We stayed in the recovery room for another hour or so and then taken into our room (2021). I cannot rave enough about the nursing staff at this hospital. They were all so great and I am so thankful for them. I was released on Sunday around 3:00 p.m. and even received a call the next morning from the hospital to see how I was doing. I was happy to be home except I really got used to pre-ordering my food and having it delivered to me. I was also getting used to my favorite nurse, Jenn, bringing me cranberry juice with extra ice every hour or so. But it was great to be home as a family 
We did have some visitors:
Michelle and Junior (Friday afternoon)
Kevin’s Grandpa, Grandma, Aunt Carla, and Cousin Tiffany (Friday evening)
Erica (Saturday afternoon)

I am so thankful for my husband. He was the best person to have at my side through this journey. I couldn’t imagine having anyone else at my side.

2011-04-10T18:46:00.000-07:00

How far along? 14 weeks and 5 days

Maternity Clothes? Not yet,but I did order my first few things online.

Stretch Marks? nope

Sleep? Need more of it. I wish I could sleep all day!

Best Moment This Week: ordering the changing table and stroller :)

Movement: No movement

Food Cravings:Steak, pickles, nachos.

Gender: Should find out on Tuesday!!!

Labor Signs: no

Belly Button: in

What I miss: I still miss beer...We were watching the Cubs game today and everyone had beer and I was JEALOUS!

What I am looking forward to: Finding out the gender on Tuesday.

Weekly Wisdom: Enjoy the good days and push through the bad ones.

Milestones: Making it through last week!

Baby Update #2

2011-03-27T07:25:00.000-07:00

How far along? 12 weeks 5 days

Maternity Clothes? Not yet, but I think they are starting to call my name. My jeans still fit, they are getting a little tighter. My belly is just starting to push my pants down so I constantly have to pull them up.

Stretch Marks? nope

Sleep? Need more of it. I wish I could sleep all day!

Best Moment This Week: Getting the crib and a dresser thing in the mail. I know it's early, but I am a planner!

Movement: I read that movement at this stage feels like bubbles... I think I felt bubbles but I wasn't sure. So I am going to go with maybe?

Food Cravings:Meat, meat, meat and more meat!!!

Gender: Ask me again on April 12th!!! This baby better work with us. My boss went in with his wife last week and their baby wouldn't let them see. I don't know what I would do... I would be sad.

Labor Signs: no

Belly Button: in

What I miss: Beer. I went to a baseball game and a hockey game where I would usually enjoy a beverage or two. It wasn't tough not to, but I was jealous of every person that I saw with a beer :)

What I am looking forward to: Finding out the gender in a few weeks and not having morning sickness.

Weekly Wisdom: Try to make your family as included as you can.

Milestones: Getting this far.

Baby on the Way!!!

2011-03-20T18:56:00.000-07:00

How far along? 11 weeks and 5 days

Maternity Clothes? nope... my pants still fit and are actually a bit too big.

Stretch Marks? nope

Sleep? yes please! I cannot get enough!!!

Best Moment This Week: Seeing our little jumping bean moving around during my second ultrasound.

Movement: Not that I can feel but the baby kept moving around during the u/s

Food Cravings: STEAK!!!

Gender: Should find out in 4 weeks, but I think it may be a boy

Labor Signs: Can I say MORNING SICKNESS!!!!

Belly Button: in

What I miss: beer and not throwing up everyday

What I am looking forward to: Finding out the gender

Weekly Wisdom: Always say you are sorry. I have been pretty cranky lately and my husband is being great but I do apologize.

Milestones: Getting to 11 weeks

Catching Up!

2010-10-15T20:40:00.001-07:00

Day10 - A dream you had this past week described in detail
I had a dream that my husband made me go get a flu shot. If anyone knows me, they know I am deathly afraid of needles, shots, hospitals, and blood. Well my husband drug me to Wal-Mart and handcuffed me to the pharmacy window with a note that said I needed a flu shot and to not let me talk them out of it. It was awful!!

Day11 - Favorite picture ever taken of yourself

This is my favorite picture because Kevin and I were in Miami for the first time. It was a perfect night.

Day12 - Your favorite musical artist’s life story

Ben Harper is one of my favorite musicians. I personally think he is amazing!

His Bio:
Personal Information

Born Ben Harper on October 28, 1969, in Pomona, CA; son of Leonard and Ellen Harper; divorced; children: C. J. and Harris.

Career

Singer-songwriter. Performed on tour with Taj Mahal, 1992; collaborated with Mahal on soundtrack for The Drinking Gourd, a biography of Harriet Tubman; toured United States as both solo and warm-up act with his band The Innocent Criminals, 1994-95; toured United States, Europe, and New Zealand, 1995-97; recording artist for Virgin Records, 1994-01; headlined at HORDE Festival and Montreux Jazz Festival; founded own record label, Inland Emperor Records, 2001- .

Life's Work

Singer-songwriter Ben Harper came into the national spotlight as a retro 1960s- type folksinger, with songs such as "Like a King," which protested the Rodney King beating while referring at the same time to the legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr. He also appeared onstage singing his own adaptation of Maya Angelou's "And Still I Rise" without accompaniment, with his fist raised in the air. It soon became evident that Harper could do more than write earnest protest songs with just an acoustic guitar. In the years since the release of his first album, Harper has been called the heir to Bob Marley as well as Jimi Hendrix. On a recent album, Live From Mars, Harper performed quiet and reverent gospel songs and covered hard-rocking Led Zeppelin's "Whole Lotta Love." Harper's versatility has become a hallmark of his short but powerful career.

Harper was was October 28, 1969, in Pomona, California, and was raised in the Inland Empire region 50 miles east of Los Angeles. It is no wonder that Harper is able to draw from so many sources for his musical inspiration. His grandparents Charles and Dorothy Chase opened a music store in 1958 called the Claremont Folk Music Center. His grandfather played the lute and his grandmother played the guitar. Harper's parents were also musically inclined. His mother, Ellen, sang and played guitar while his father, Leonard, played the drums. Harper grew up in an environment saturated with many different types of music as well as books and different instruments from all over the world. When he was a teenager Harper listened to hip-hop, but his musical compass had already been set--he would play the music that he had grown up with--American roots music.

In his late teens Harper began to drift away from rap music and move toward the roots of today's popular music--the blues. He began to play Robert Johnson and Son House, key figures in the formation of the Delta Blues tradition from the 1920s. It was this reverence for the old traditional forms of music that led him to his trademark sound, which comes from playing bottleneck slide guitar.

Harper told Jas Obrecht of Guitar Player about the influence of the early blues masters on his development as an artist: "I'd play those records at night, and then I'd go to school and hear them in my mind. The music that I was brought up with puts me in a trance, and that's the channel to the spirit of my music. I woodshedded on the bottleneck for years, putting in hours and hours a day to where morning would turn to night. I did that from the time I was 18 to 20. I was really trying to learn Robert Johnson tunes ... Mississippi John Hurt just hit me like a truck, and that was something I had to play and be a part of. Then Taj Mahal called me up."

Harper had been playing acoustic blues sets in and around Los Angeles from the time he was 16 years old. At one of his shows, blues legend Taj Mahal noticed the serious young man playing the lap slide guitar and invited him on tour. In 1992 Harper appeared on the television show Austin City Limits as part of Mahal's band and collaborated with him on the soundtrack for The Drinking Gourd, a biography of Harriet Tubman. But Harper continued to play mostly the small local coffee shops with his vintage Weissenborn guitar, a completely hollow instrument handmade in the 1920s by Herman Weissenborn. Harper's childhood friend and producer J. P. Plunier was able to arrange meetings with Los Angeles record companies on the strength of the buzz surrounding "Like a King," but Harper's protest song scared some record executives away. In an article on the website of the American Society of Composers, Authors, and Publishers, Harper told Randy Grimmett about his meeting with the head of Virgin Records: "We were advised not to play 'Like a King' because it made the other A&R people nervous. So, of course, we get to the meeting and it's the first song I play. It turned out to be the song he liked most."

From that meeting Harper and Plunier received money to make a six-song demo, which turned into Harper's first album, 1994's Welcome to the Cruel World. The acoustic-based album was very different from the music that dominated the airwaves in the last gasp of the grunge era. But it was exactly that community that was most attracted to Harper's music. He and his band, The Innocent Criminals, began a marathon tour playing solo shows and warming up at the concerts of more well-known acts.

Harper told Jeffrey Pepper Rodgers of Acoustic Guitar magazine about one of his typical early shows: "I'll never forget opening up for P. J. Harvey--she invited us to tour with her. I'd sit down with an acoustic Weissenborn in front of 12-year-old girls with black eyeliner packed in the front row, looking up at me going, 'What in the hell is he playing?' But by the third or fourth song, the heads would start to nod, and then it would be on, you know. We never got stoned or anything like that--not yet."

It was during this ceaseless touring that the band worked on material for Harper's next release, 1995's Fight For Your Mind. Harper's song "Look Like Gold" also garnered some radio airtime. The record also yielded a two-year worldwide tour that found Harper travelling the globe to spread his music. Harper and his band toured throughout the United States and also in Europe and places like Turkey and New Zealand. While on the road Harper wrote material for his next album, which was released in 1997 and called The Will To Live. This record proved to be somewhat of a departure for Harper, as it featured a harder, more electric sound, especially on the record's single, "Faded," which featured a grinding electric guitar over Harper's hushed vocals. Harper was now playing with the heavyweights of the music industry such as Pearl Jam, Dave Mathews Band, and the Fugees, as well as blues and soul icons like John Lee Hooker and Ray Charles. He headlined at the HORDE Festival and played at the legendary Montreux Jazz Festival. It was this variety of influences that led to the next album, Burn to Shine, which was released in 1999. On this record Harper fully spread his musical wings, showing his quiet spiritual side in "Two Hands Of A Prayer," and from there going to the light and playful "Steal My Kisses," which attracted significant radio airplay. He went all electric on the album's title track and on "Forgiven," and ventured into the realms of reggae, soul, and even ragtime jazz on "Suzie Blue." Harper told Rodgers of Acoustic Guitar about his musical progression: "I do have to say that playing and expressing myself on electrics of late is renewing my focus and enthusiasm and excitement about acoustics. If I played only acoustic for my entire life, I would get bored. So for my own musical growth, I need to venture out into other worlds of music and sound."

Harper's versatility was showcased on 2001's Live From Mars, a two-disc concert recording. One disc features his acoustic music, including a soulful rendition of Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing," and the other disc features his more hard-edged music. Though Live From Mars was met with critical acclaim, Harper's life took a turn from the touring and recording cycle that he had known for the past six years. Harper's name began to appear in the gossip columns as much as it did in the music section of the newspapers. Late in 2001 it was reported that Harper had divorced his wife, Joanna, and bought a house in Los Angeles with actress Laura Dern. In 2002 The New York Post reported that Harper would be dropped from EMI's financially troubled Virgin record label in the midst of recording his next album. Harper also took time to found his own record label--Inland Emperor Records. His first artist, who had also appeared on selected recordings throughout Harper's four studio albums, was Patrick Brayer, the man who had given Harper his first paid gig. Brayer was the man who organized the Starvation Café series of concerts. The local concert promoter paid the stunned 16-year-old Harper half of the gate, which at that time was $75.

Whatever direction Harper's next project takes, he will remain true to his roots. He told Lisa Wilton of the Calgary Sun: "I'll never be a rock star and I'll never care to be. It doesn't interest me. It's not me being a rock star, it's me being perceived as a rock star. There's a difference. I feel no physical, spiritual, psychological or egotistical connection to that term at all. My commitment and discipline is in writing songs and playing them well live."

Day 13 - A memory that never fails to make you laugh

I really have a ton... Usually it's something stupid that I have done. One funny one is when Tricia and I stole firewood from UHual. That was pretty funny.

Day 14 - Best mashup you’ve ever heard

I have no idea what a mashup is but for some reason punk music comes to mind... So my favorite time during a punk song is when the beat gets intense and you know it time to MOSH!!! Love it!

Day 15 - A moment, phrase, or song that has changed your life the most.

"Do the right thing, because it's the right thing to do" is a phrase that has stuck with me since 8th grade. My engligh teacher used to say this at the end of every class. She would say "Do the right thing because..." and the class would say "because it's the right thing to do"

I try to live my life by this.

Day 16 - Something that you want to do within the next five years.

Finish school and start my masters!!!! OOOOOOOOOh yeah!

Day 17 - What you want to remembered for.

For being myself, not trying to be like anybody else. Being tough and honest. having a big heart that I don't often show... but the ones that are closest know it's there. I want to make a difference! I just want to be remembered.

Day 09 - Five things you want to see change

2010-10-07T21:31:00.000-07:00

I don't need 5 things to change.

I need one thing to change...

I want people to be more open minded!

If you are going to judge them, get to know them first.
If you don't agree with something, was there a time where you once did and something changed?
Is there 100% right and 100% wrong?
Is there no grey area?
How do you know what you know? Have you lived it? Did you read it?

Being open minded it tough. It is a skill and should be something everyone needs to strive toward. If everyone was openminded than everything else would change for the better.

Day 08 - Someone you think would make a good president

2010-10-06T00:17:00.000-07:00

This is probably the WORST question that could be ask me to answer. If anyone knows me they will say that I am a middle of the road type of person. I can NEVER be on one side or the other. I believe there are always exceptions.

So maybe my answer would be someone who is openminded and a middle of the road type of person?

Is anyone in particular ever going to be liked or respected by everyone?

I don't think so.

Maybe we should have a royal family instead?

Day 07 - Favorite cover of your favorite song

2010-10-05T06:51:00.000-07:00

I don't really have a favorite song...
But the cover I probably like the most is Social D's cover of Johnny Cash's "Ring of Fire" I have always liked Social D and in my opinion, I don't think that they can't do anything poorly. Johnny Cash is always amazing and just has this way about his music and his presence. The two versions are so different but I love them both... I have to say I love Social D's a bit more, but I am a huge fan of punk.

It think this was the perfect mix and wish they would have actually collaborated in a few music endevours.

Here is the Socail D version:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tk5JUp27_Oo

Here is the Johnny Cash version:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRlj5vjp3Ko

Day 06 - Earliest thing you can remember

2010-10-04T00:15:00.000-07:00

I am not exactly sure what my first memory is. I guess it could be a few things.

I do remember sitting on the floor eating pizza with my Mom and Dad. It must have been when we first moved into the house in Lake Elsinore. We didn't have our furniture in the house yet, so we were all on the floor. I must have been around the age of two. I don't remember much else except that we didn't have stairs by the front door yet so my Dad would pick me up and set me in the house.

I guess that would be the earliest thing I can remember. Not too exciting!

Day 05 - A thank you letter to someone who has changed your life

2010-10-03T01:42:00.000-07:00

This is probably the hardest challenge day yet. So many people have impacted my life and I can learn something from every person I come in contact with. The easiest people to write to/about would have to be my parents and of course my husband. My parents were incredibly influential; I still learn from them and look up to them. My husband is the reason I want to be a better person, the reason I am in school, and I don’t know who or where I would be without him.

However, my letter is to someone who has been in my life since day one and might not even know how much they have changed my life. Well, she may know just a little.

Dear TLS #2 (My Wonderful Sister Trina),

Currently we are closer than ever and I couldn’t be more grateful for your friendship and love. I have always looked up to you because of your strength and take no prisoners attitude. You say what you mean and mean what you say; this is a trait we both share. Maybe we got it from Dad? Although, he is usually a bit nicer and we are J and watch out when we get together… oh boy! it’s like we have been close all of our lives, that doesn’t happen by accident. Did you know that you are the reason I am in Human Services? You have inspired me by the experiences you have endured and how you have handled everything.

I know I have told you in the past that I wish I would have answered the phone when you called that night. I sometimes think that the incident wouldn’t have happened if I answered, but I also know that way of thinking doesn’t change anything. You had a feeling and I just couldn’t believe that he was capable of something like that. It just shows me that you may feel you know someone but you never truly do unless you are with them every day. Seeing you go through this has made me look up to you more than ever. You are so strong and have shown me that this can happen to anyone. You have changed my view of women that have been faced with domestic violence. I now have a passion for helping women that have been in similar situations; maybe not even domestic violence but any situation where they may need a bit of rebuilding.

I know Mom has told us a little about her experience with abuse but I wasn’t there to see it and we know she left, so I don’t think it hit home. You showed me that no matter how strong and put together someone is, they may still be going through something. The past occurrences have allowed us to see the true character in some of our family members and truthfully, it is disgusting. It’s sad that it wasn’t surprising when their true selves started to shine through. Did you know that I have also learned from her? She is basically the person I do not want to be.

You may not see how amazing you are, but I do and I am lucky you have you as my Sister! You are such a great mother and you have raised the best nephews and niece that I could ever ask for. You are amazing to Mom and Dad and I know they appreciate everything you do for them. In some aspects we couldn’t be more different but I think we are also similar in so many areas. I couldn’t be more proud of you. Most importantly, I couldn’t be more proud to call you my sister. Thank you for being you and for showing me what true strength is.

Love ya,
Tiff

Day 04 - What you imagine paradise to be like

2010-10-02T01:16:00.000-07:00

My paradise is on a little island in the Bahamas where dolphins are my neighbors and a hut is where my husband and I reside. My parents, family, and close friends live on the next island over and we have our own resort. A fun place just for us and also invited guests. Cold drinks are served in coconuts and pineapples. A private chef will make us anything. The sun is always shining. Crystal clear blue waters and white sandy beaches. No one ever feels pain or gets sick.

Day 03 - The five songs you would have with you on a desert island and why

2010-10-01T00:16:00.000-07:00

Oh boy… This is a tough one! It’s hard to narrow it down to 5. I like a ton of different music but, punk music is my favorite. Is punk music really appropriate for a desert island? Maybe I would want upbeat happy music? Or slow island music? Or booty shaken music?

Anywho, here is my list...

1. Sweet Honey by Slightly Stoopid. I have no idea why but this song never gets old. I can listen to Sweet Honey over and over and it still makes me smile from ear to ear J As soon as I hear this song I see my friend Mindy and I in her apartment in Pacific Beach dancing and acting goofy.

2. Steal my Kisses by Ben Harper. This song is upbeat and fun. I remember hearing this song for the first time on the set of Pepsi Smash and I was in awe when I heard this awesome song. Love Ben Harper. I was on a desert island this song would automatically take me back to where I first heard it.

3. Crazy by Gnarles Barkley. I would probably be going crazy on an island by myself, so this song fits. It’s also fun and has a great beat.

4. Let’s get it started by the Black-eyed Peas. This was the bridal party entrance song at our wedding and that is the first thing I think of when I hear it. Super fun song!

5. The Cha Cha Slide by Dj Casper. Who isn’t happy when this song comes on? Plus, I love to clap!!!! With this song I would have my own one person party on the island.

Day 02 - Something that inspires you

2010-09-30T07:26:00.001-07:00

A million things inspire me! Craft shows, Hobby Lobby, friends, family, magazines, books, students, flowers, the beach, music, movies, TV shows, nail polish, people... Anything!!! Currently, I am amazingly inspired by the women at Maggie's Place. I have been volunteering there for the past month and a half and have racked up about 50 hours. These Moms inspire me because they have all taken different roads to end up at the house, but want to change. It's inspiring to see someone want to be a better person. It's more inspiring to see them work toward that goal of becoming a better person. The staff at Maggie's Place is compiled of four women that I think are the closest to a Saint you can. They have given up their lives to work and live at Maggie's Place. They give so much and they don't even realize how wonderful they are.

Check out their website to see their story.

http://www.maggiesplace.org/

I am also doing a donation drive that will end on October 17th. Let me know if you would like to help :)

Day 01 - Guilty pleasure

2010-09-29T22:19:00.000-07:00

This is my guilty pleasure... A few months ago, I would have said Blue Monster. This is my ultimate weakness at the moment and frankly I need to quit. Currently, I love it!!!

30 Day Challenge

2010-09-29T22:14:00.000-07:00

Day 01 - Guilty pleasure
Day 02 - Something that inspires you
Day 03 - The five songs you would have with you on a desert island and why
Day 04 - What you imagine paradise to be like
Day 05 - A thank you letter to someone who has changed your life
Day 06 - Earliest thing you can remember
Day 07 - Favorite cover of your favorite song
Day 08 - Someone you think would make a good president
Day 09 - Five things you want to see change
Day10 - A dream you had this past week described in detail
Day11 - Favorite picture ever taken of yourself
Day12 - Your favorite musical artist’s life story
Day 13 - A memory that never fails to make you laugh
Day 14 - Best mashup you’ve ever heard
Day 15 - A moment, phrase, or song that has changed your life the most.
Day 16 - Something that you want to do within the next five years.
Day 17 - What you want to remembered for.
Day 18 - A picture that makes you feel
Day 19 - A passage from a book that has touched you
Day 20 - A band that you immediately liked and the song that made you like them
Day 21 - Your favorite medium of art.
Day 22 - Someone you would give your life up for without question.
Day 23 - Most awkward first impression you feel you’ve ever given
Day 24 - Something you did as a child that other people remember you for.
Day 25 - Something you would do if no one stopped you or if you knew you wouldn’t fail.
Day 26 - Your definition of love.
Day 27 - Your definition of the meaning of life.
Day 28 - A moment you remember being completely happy in and a description of why you believe you were. What is your definition of happiness
Day 29 - What you live for.
Day 30 - Ways you believe you have grown over the past thirty days.

Ba- Ba- Ba- BAHAMAS!!!

2010-09-01T20:26:00.000-07:00

Here are a few of my favorite snap shots from our trip to the Bahamas. We had a blast adn can't wait to go on another cruise. If anyone is thinking of going on a cruise with NCL... DO IT!!! The staff was amazing and we really had a great time. The Bahamas is fun but HUMID. Holy hell was it humid. I tried to prepare myself but I don't think you can prepare yourself for this much humidity. My favorite island was Great Stirrup Cay... it's a private island and was more than beautiful!!! Ugh, I can't wait to start planning our next trip, I think it will be Tahiti! I have always wanted to go there and really want to get tattooed at Moorea Tattoo.

Time Flies By!

2010-08-29T18:58:00.000-07:00

On our three year anniversary Kevin and I were on a cruise ship in the Bahamas, so I wasn't able to post this. I thought it might be nice to go back and take a quick look at the day Kevin adn I became Husband and Wife. The last three years have flown by and it is crazy to look back and see how much our life has changed. Here are a few of my favorite pictures just in case you haven't seen them. Enjoy!

My mom and I watching the mother/son dance.
Our first dance as husband and wife

Walking down the aisle

The Men

My wonderful Neice

Our flower girls :)

All of the Groomsmen

Sharp

Driving off into the sunset :)

Love

I love this photo

For some reason I love this pic

My all time favorite pic of myself, my neice, Trish, and Jenna

Rainbow SANDALS!!!!

My neice Paige

My blinged out Rainbows

The dress

Getting my make up did

Garter and flippie floppies

My wedding day undies

Before the flash floods can spewing out of my eyes

Man Dude and Dude Man

My Neice Paige and I

The BF and I

Jenna and I

My cousin Lisa and I

Getting my flower in the right place

Does it look ok there?

Getting beautiful

Final Touches

Done and Done

All of the ladies getting ready

I know it went out of order a bit, but I love everyone that spent the day with me. I was a stressed out wreck, due to my timeline. But I just wanted to get to the Newport Beach Country Club to marry my awesome Husband!!

Love you all! And here's to many more years to come!

2010-08-12T21:31:00.000-07:00

I have to say that today was one of the scariest days of my life. There have been rumors for months. I even had my own thoughts on what would happen, I would even say that I felt prepared for when this day actually arrived.

I came in this morning, logged in and opened my outlook like normal. I then poured my water over ice and got ready to start my day. I then checked my email (because my outlook takes a while to open up) and I saw it, right there. It could be my fate... the meeting planner for a department wide meeting. I immediately got knots in my stomach and felt like I was going to throw up.

I tried to carry on with my day as normal. I went to our farewell lunch with my boss. We ate pizza, laughed, and gave Nicole her little gifts from us. We then went back to the office and got ready for our meeting. Walking into the building was different this time. People were crying and watching each other. We then were told to take our personal things and log out before going to the meeting.

We made our way to the conference room where the meeting was taking place. We sat for about 20 minutes in suspense. My stomach still in knots, my entire body shaking, and I couldn't decide if I was going to throw up or pee my pants. I was scared, I had no control... and to think I felt prepared prior to this day. Looking around the room everyone was trying to see what others were talking about, trying to see if anyone knew anything.

I was sitting there and noticed that my friend was nowhere to be found yet he left before me. A co-worker and I notice that there are people missing from our department. I decide to text my friend to see where he was. Then the texts start... he was in a different room. He was sent to a different location for the meeting. I then get more nervous, trying to figure out what this means.

VP's from Academics and Finance walk in and I thought "oh no! Here we go" They stayed in the front of the room waiting for other members of the VP and HR team. We talked a little and I was on my phone receiving texts from friends and giving my husband a play by play.

I then find out that my friend was let go. My heart broke for him and I am more confused than ever because I still have no idea what is going to happen to all of us in the room.

My friend then texts me "they are on their way to you now." I don't know how to feel.

The Regional VP comes in with our VP and a few other higher ups and proceeds to tell us what has been going on, she asks a few rhetorical questions and I felt like time was moving in slow motion. She then tells us that we do have our jobs and will stay in our current positions until August 31st and as of September 1st we will be in new departments. They did away with my department but I still have a job.

At this moment I am happy, sad, guilty, disappointed, relieved, scared, grateful, and blessed.
We did not return to work after the meeting and I will be going in at 5:00 a.m. tomorrow because my parents will be in town. Kevin and I then leave on our cruise to the Bahamas on Sunday.

I am mentally drained. I do feel lucky but feel so bad for those that were let go. Especially my friend Caleb. He is a wonderful person and means well. He didn't die, he was just let go. I will still see him and he is my number one customer for pickles :) I have been able to see him grow and mature into a more professional version of what he once was.

OK, I am back to cleaning! I just had to get my thoughts out.

T to the X

2010-06-03T20:34:00.000-07:00

On Monday I leave for a leadership conference for work. I was one of five selected out of my department. I am still not sure if I deserve it but I am very excited. I do work hard and bust my ass at work, but in no way shape or form am I a top performer. The leadership conference is in Dallas, Texas this year and I am excited to go. It will be something new and will post pictures as soon as I can.
For the time being, I am working on washing my clothes and packing little by little.

Hey maybe I will meet Paul Wall? I do want a grill!

Arizona Por Vida : )

2010-06-02T19:49:00.000-07:00

Kevin and I were at breakfast on Saturday and he brought up the Power Ball...
Here is our convo:
Kevin: What would you do if we won the power ball?
Tiff: I don't know how much is it?
Kevin: 200 something MILLION
Tiff: Oh wow!
Kevin: yeah, so remind me to buy a ticket today
Tiff: I would build a huge house... in Scottsdale or that one city I like. I call it desert hills but I don't think that is the real name.
Kevin: Did you just hear what you said?
Tiff: Ummm ... yeah jerk face, I would build a house
Kevin: In Arizona
Tiff: Yup... oh... wait. Omg, I said Arizona.
Kevin: Yeah you did. So no California
Tiff: Nope, I think I like it here.

Can you believe that? Without hesitation, I said Arizona and not California. Some of my friends still don't understand why I like Arizona so much, so I decided to make a random list of things I fancy here.

In no particular order:
The sky:
The sky here is beautiful... nothing like California. The sunsets are amazing as well.

Traffic:
Hardly any traffic! I love it. Yeah, once and a while it is stop and go... but not everyday like in SoCal.

My house:
I absolutely adore my house. If we were still in CA we would still be in an apartment. Well. we might have found a crappy overpriced house to live in. Nothing like our house here though.

My pool:
I'm not going to lie, I didn't want the pool at first. I am so glad I let Kevin talk me in to it, because I have no idea what either of us would do without a pool. It is wonderful.

My friends:
I have been fortunate enough to meet some pretty great people here. I also think I have met a few that will be lifelong friends :)

My God Daughter:
If we were still in CA I would have never met my bestie and I would not have my little monkey as my god daughter.
The Phoenix Coyotes:
Who would have thought that Hockey would become one of my favorite sports. Gosh, I love hockey and the Coyotes are my fav team. GO DOAN!!!
Spring Training:
I still get to see my Pads and for cheap! I also love seeing teams I might not regularly see.
My Schooling:
I know for a fact I would not be in college back in CA.
The Weather:
That's right! The weather... I love the hot, the cold, the super duper hot heat.
I do have more things that I like, but thought I would end here.
I never thought I could live anywhere besides California and never understood why people moved to other states. I understand now. I am glad that I was born and raised in Southern California and have been able to go places that people dream of. I am truly grateful for where I have been and where I am now.
Home Sweet Home

SATC 2

2010-05-30T09:57:00.000-07:00

My bestie Michelle and I went to see Sex and the City 2 yesterday. No line, hardly anyone in the theater, good movie, good company. .. what could have gone better? Nothing! I have included pictures from some of my favorite parts of the movie!

50:50? 60:40? 70:30?

2010-05-26T07:34:00.000-07:00

When I talk with my students at work, I make sure the conversation is 80/20. Which means that they talk 80% of the time and I talk 20%... this way you get to know the student more. In the end, I should know more about the student than they know about me.

This got me thinking...

What about our conversations with our friends. Old ones, new ones, future ones... how much do I really know about my friends and how much do they know about me?

I am going to focus on this and I want all of my friendships 50:50.

So the next time you are talking to a friend, think about the ratio of your friendship. How much do you know about them and how much do they know about you.

Book em' Dano!

2010-05-23T22:25:00.000-07:00

Kevin purchased our tickets for our trip to the...

wait for it...

BAHAMAS!

woo hoo!

I am so excited that I need a new word that is bigger and better than excited. It seems like we take a lot of vacations but we really don't. Before this year we had only gone on vacation once and that was to Chicago, which I planned for Kevin xmas and birthday gift. In the past 12 months we have been to California (like always for family stuff), Lake Tahoe (for a wedding...NEVER drive to Lake Tahoe, long trip), Catalina and now the Bahamas. Neither of us have been out of the country before so this should be fun. I have been to TJ before, but that doesn't count. 1) because it is awful, 2) because it is dirty, 3) because it is 10 min. away from San Diego, and 4) because it SUCKS!

I am just so excited. Now I just have to figure out what to bring and start counting down the days!

Oh, and tomorrow starts my HARDCORE diet so I can get in bangin bikini shape for the trip : )

Brunch at The Farm

2010-05-16T20:21:00.000-07:00

I love brunch! Sunday brunch is pretty much my favorite thing to do on Sundays. This morning I met my friend Heidi at The Farm at South Mountain. The is the cutest place ever. It is located on 32nd Street and Baseline. Well it's between Baseline and another street, but the name escapes me at the moment. They have a few restaurants, a gift shop, and people set up selling things. Ever single person we encountered was super nice and in a great mood. It was nice.

The restaurant we chose was the Morning Glory Cafe and it was nice. Our server was super nice and the food was pretty good. We didn't have to wait very long and were able to visit the unique gift shop.

Heidi and I had a good time and I hope to do brunch again sometime.

Animals, Heat, and Idiots

2010-05-15T18:55:00.000-07:00

I have wanted to go to the Wildlife World Zoo for some time now and I finally got Kevin to go this morning. I was already up early because I had to go pick up my Bountiful Basket of veggies and fruit. After putting away my delicious veggies and fruit we get in the car and head off to the Zoo. We get there park in the shade and enter the gates. We saw a ton of animals but I could not wait to see the Giraffes and Zebras. I have always liked Zebras but have been obsessed with Giraffes lately. It was hot today... I believe around 90 something. It took us about 2 hours to go through the Zoo and Aquarium. Some animals were neat some were not, and you wondered why some of them were at the zoo anyway. I am a bit jaded because I grew up going to the San Diego Zoo but I still had fun!
Here are some of the animals we encountered...

Ok, so I covered the animals and the heat... now what about the idiots? Oh yeah! So we exit the Zoo and are looking forward to our lunch at Islands. We get to our car and we are blocked in. BLOCKED IN!!! Are you kidding me? So we go to the ticket booth and let them know, the give us some paper and a pen and ask us to write down their license number. I write it down and they said that they will announce it at all of the shows so the person can come out and move their van. Kevin and I waiting over an hour when someone moved... nope, not the car we needed but another car. It took us a while but we maneuvered and were able to get out. We never saw the idiots that blocked up in but while we were waiting for the hour +, I wrote a note. I had nothing else to do. Before we left the parking lot I left my little note on their window. To the person in the gold van that blocked me in... YOU SUCK!

Excitement has set in…

2010-05-11T21:10:00.000-07:00

Warm weather and sunny days have helped put my excitement in to over drive. I know it’s early but if any of you know me, then you know I get excited about everything and in advance. Ok, so I am so excited for my annual

We have one every year and it has quickly become my absolute favorite weekend here in Arizona. When we lived in California the 4th was never a huge deal but since we have moved here I look forward to it every year! This year is going to be bigger and better than ever filled with family and close friends! I have already made my wish list for www.orientaltrading.com and the countdown has begun.

I used to...

2010-05-01T21:47:00.000-07:00

I feel like I need to get into a sport or back into boxing or a martial art. Today I was talking to some people and I stated that I used to do Tae Kwon Do and then later it came up that I used to box. Now, mind you I had to basically quit training. I was faced with an ultimatum... either work and go to college or work and box. It was seriously a super tough decision and I decided to chose college. It still makes me sad because I wonder what if...
I love the sport so much and enjoyed being a part of it.
The Mosley vs. Mayweather fight was on tonight and it was a good one... I just wish it would have been a closer fight. Mosley used to be my favorite boxer. Last weekend I watched the heavyweight fight and Cris lost again... I just think he needs to work harder on his training, he has such enormous potential and I don't think he sees it. See Cris and I used to fight out of the same boxing club and I know he can be the best, he just needs to put forth more effort.
So, I need to find something to get into... jui jitsu is becoming very popular but just isn't my cup of tea. I was thinking maybe karate, karate is similar to Tae Kwon Do but is a bit different.
OK, my rant is over.

My New Not-so-Sinful Delight

2010-04-30T21:39:00.000-07:00

So I am trying to wathc what I eat but I still have a sweet tooth. So, I was at Fry's and I notice that the Yoplait Caramel Deights were on sale so I get a pack to try and whoa are the YUMMY!!!!

The best part is they are only 100 calories... oh yeah!!!

Goody Spin Pin

2010-04-28T23:23:00.000-07:00

Whoa... I am so excited about these. I hope they work, they are spin pins by Goody. I read that they do the work of 20 bobby pins.

I am so excited to go buy some to try!

UGH.... School!

2010-04-26T17:01:00.000-07:00

So I am very tired today and not interested in going to class. I do realize that I need this class and this is a bridge I must cross to get to the next level. I have found this class rather difficult and I am a bit lost... hopefully I will gain understanding tonight in my four hours of class that must be endured.

I am in a learning team room waiting for the people in my learning team to arrive. I have been waiting here for approx. 20 minutes and no one has shown up. I am debating on whether to just go to class or not... hmmmmm. I can't wait for tonight to be over.

I need an education!

I need an education... to meet my goals!

TO TAN OR NOT TO TAN

2010-04-24T23:34:00.000-07:00

Ok... so I am pretty pale and don't tan very easily. Before our wedding I went to the tanning salon almost every day... but when I look back at the pictures I still look white as hell. I have now turned to using lotions. I have tried many different kinds that cost anywhere from 4.95 to 39.95 and so far I like the cheaper lotions to tell you the truth.

Too Faced Tanning Bed in a Tube

This product does work BUT it is very shiny and doesn't make that much of a chance... also, be careful if you are wearing white or have light colored sheets. Expect to pay around $20.00-$29.00.

Jergens FOAMING Lotion

This works but make sure you completely rub it in because you will be streaks and missed spots. Also make sure you rinse your hands but do it carefully because if you get water on your arms to will be able to see white spots the next day. The cost is usually around $8.00.

And the winner is.... Jergens natural Glow Daily Moisturizer

This one is by far my favorite! There is a large margin for error if you are a first time self tanner. It also makes your legs and other body parts super smooth and you can see a difference. The only draw back is that it takes a few times to see a difference but once you apply it one or two days you are good. This will cost you around $8.00 but can often find generic brands for around $5.00.

Have a tannerific Day!

Summer is just around the corner and if you live where I do, it's already short and dress weather.

Tiff's 25 Things

2010-04-17T19:07:00.000-07:00

So I saw this on Michelle's blog so I decided to do the same thing. Here are 25 random things about me. Enjoy.

1- I LOVE Universal Studios

2-Kevin and I bought our house while on vacation in AZ

3-My favorite musical group is The Beach Boys & Mike Love is my favorite guy in the group

4-My first job was at a Chinese fast food place. My friend Abi was nice enough to hook me up with a job.

5-I talk to my parents almost every day

6-When I was young I never dreamt of my wedding, in fact I never thought I would be married. Although I couldn’t have asked for anything more perfect!

7-I have to have sweet n low in my iced tea or else I will not drink it

8-I am very sarcastic

9-Kevin and I finally went on our "anniversarymoon"

10-My BF and Bestie are better than yours!

11-I am like the mafia; once you’re in you’re in, but once you betray me... you are out forever.

12-When I was young I had a vivid imagination and I once told people in a supermarket that my name was Sharp Sharpener and I was an orphan and my Mom was not really my Mom. (my favorite movie at the time was Annie, can you tell?)

13-I am and will always be a Daddy's Girl

14-I have a God Daughter named Atalie Belle. She is my little monkey and I am truly blessed to be her Nina : )

15-I believe that I should have grown up in the 1950's

16- Mr.T, Barbie, and Gidget were my idols when I was little

17-Myself, Kevin, and our bridal parties wore rainbow sandals for the wedding

(below are the flip flops I wore)

18-Kevin and I want to renew our wedding vows on our 5 year anniversary. I want to have the ceremony done by Elvis but we'll see. Vegas baby!

19-My sister Trina and I were never close when I was young but I am happy that were are close now

20-I am adore Tori Spelling

21-Self tanning lotion is my friend

22- I love planning parties

23-I wish there were three of me because I take on too many things and never have enough time!

24- I am the youngest of 5

25. - I love mosh pits and feel that I will always have the urge to knock people around while listening to my favorite music.

Ok, now that you are done checking out my 25 things you have to do the same. Have fun!

Love

2010-04-17T18:49:00.000-07:00

If every word I said

Could make you laugh

I'd talk forever

I'd ask the sky just what we had

It showed forever

If the song I sing to you

Could fill your heart with joy

I'd sing forever

Forever, forever

I've been so happy loving you

Let the love I have for you live in your heart

And be forever

Forever, forever

I've been so happy loving you
If every word I said could make you laugh

I'd talk forever

Forever, forever

I'll be so happy loving you

Introducing Miss Atalie Belle

2010-04-15T20:22:00.000-07:00

So, one week ago today my god daughter was brought into this world. I was lucky enough to leave work early so I could be at the hospital with Michelle and Junior.

If you don't know me very well, you wouldn't know how fearful of hospitals, blood, needles, nurses, etc I am. In fact I am having a tough time just writing the words. Anyway so I did my best to keep my cool and I was even ok enough to take some pictures.

Here is a picture of Michelle hours before giving birth.

It's a Girl!!! Juniors Mom brought this for Michelle.

Michelle holding little Miss Atalie ( my little monkey )

Here she is!!! Calm and alert.

Junior feeding Atalie for the first time.

I am so excited she is finally here!

Great Day, Two Great Games

2010-01-24T19:34:00.000-08:00

So today was the last day of football before the Super Bowl and The Colts and The Saints will meet in Miami to head off in the Super Bowl.

Jets vs. Colts
This game was hard for me because I strongly dislike the entire Manning family, but after last weekend I HATE the Jets. So I was torn but I decided to root for the Colts and they won.

Vikings vs. SAINTS
Obviously I was going for the Saints! I am a die hard Charger fan but Drew Brees will always have a place in my heart so I always want the Saints to win... unless they are playing the Chargers.

The Saints completely deserve this win, they were faced with bad calls all evening and finally caught a break toward the end. Did you know that the Saints have NEVER been to a Super Bowl? That's right 40 years and no Super Bowls.

GO DREW!!!!

GO SAINTS!!!!

This one is for Heidi

2010-01-23T00:19:00.000-08:00

So a few weeks ago Heidi, Caleb and I decided that we would update our blogs everyday. Yeah, so that didn't happen but I am going to try and remember. Heidi reminded me tonight that I needed to post... here ya go Heidi.

What should I talk about today?

Ok, Let's talk about losing weight. So I have been working my butt off at the gym and I am starting to notice a little bit of weight loss. Recently other people have started to notice too. I am NO WHERE near where I would like to be, but I think I am on track. I also went to see a dietician and I am set to fit in my goal shorts before Kevin and I go to Catalina Island.

Well I must now get to bed so I can wake up early and go to the gym.

2010-01-17T15:26:00.000-08:00

That's right, The Chargers are on t.v. and I feel the need to write a blog while halftime is going on. So far the teams I wanted to win have won and all I need is the Chargers to take the win today. I want to see them beat the Colts next week. Let's hope they keep the lead for the second half! Cross your fingers for my Chargers people!!!

GO BOLTS!!!!

To Do List...

2010-01-16T19:24:00.000-08:00

So I have been thinking about this for some time now. There is no time like the present... Right?
Here we go...
Tiff's Bucket List (in no particular order)
- learn how to snowboard
- skydive
- go to Poland
- go to a Charger vs. Raider game
- swim with sharks
- swim with dolphins
- take a cruise
- finish bachelors degree
- obtain masters degree
- go to a Padres vs. Cubs game at Wrigley
- VIP experience at Universal Studios

This is all I can think of for now.

Fabulous Bowl?

2010-01-13T22:00:00.000-08:00

The football season is coming to an end and my team has a good chance of making it to the Super Bowl. I say if they make it there I am going to call it the Fabulous Bowl, not the Super Bowl becacue it will be bigger and better than super!

I will give you a few clues as to who my favorite team is...

Here is a picture of my boys getting amped for a win

They play the Jets next and they need to keep it up. We are so close to the bowl I can almost taste it!

I'm getting ready to do my lights out dance, hopefully it will bring in another win.

AND THE COUNTDOWN BEGINS...

2010-01-13T21:49:00.000-08:00

So as some of you know Kevin and I did not go on a honeymoon because we decided to buy a house instead. We have tried to go on vacation a few times, but something always seems to come up. This time we are ACTUALLY GOING ON VACATION!!! I am so excited and cannot wait for our "Anniversarymoon". I call it our anniversarymoon because it has taken years to take it.

So you may be asking yourself- Wow, I wonder where they are going?

We are going to a very special place to us and it was actually the first place we ever went on a weekend trip. But this time we are going for a WEEK.

Are you ready to find out?

Are you sure?

Ok, we are going to

CATALINA ISLAND

Words cannot explain how excited I am but I promise to take lots of pictures and actually post them as well.

Christmas a few weeks late.

2010-01-04T21:42:00.000-08:00

I have been blogging with just words lately and no photos, so I decided to add some pictures to this one. Here are two pictures from my parents Christmas party. I had a ton of fun! I got to see my my Parents, Aunt, Cousins, Nephews, Neices, Brother, Sister, BF, and her Mom. The White Elephant was hilarious and some people got upset... HELLO IT'S JUST A GAME. Anywho, here are two pics.

My BF (Trish) and I

My Sister and I
(yeah we do not look alike at all but we are in fact Sisters)
I love her and she is basically the funniest person.

Getting my arse to the effin gym

2010-01-03T20:31:00.000-08:00

So I got a gym membership in November with the mind set that I would work out every effin day. Ummm... so that didn't quite happen. I have gained so much weight since moving my lazy arse to Arizona. I need to get back in shape and lose some weight! Today I bought goal shorts.. bermuda shorts to be specific. They are stinking cute and I am excited to fit in them. I am actually calling them my Half way to my goal shorts. They are not exactly the size I want to be but they are a few sizes smaller than I am now.

Tomorrow I will be at the gym around 5:00 a.m. and will be on my way to fitting into those bermudas!

Wish me luck.

WoOoOo HoOoOo...

2009-12-31T10:34:00.000-08:00

It's New Years Eve Everybody!

I cannot believe that when I wake up tomorrow it will be 2010!!!
This year has just flown by! It was a good year and I hope next year will be even better. We all go through ups and downs but I had many more UPs than downs this year. I am excited to see what next year brings…

My Resolutions:
Get A’s or high B’s in my classes
LOSE WEIGHT!!!!!!!!
Stop drinking so many Monsters (we’ll see)
FINALLY go on a cruise with my wonderful husband

Friendship

2009-12-30T20:50:00.000-08:00

I once heard that friendship is a full time job. I never fully agreed but as time goes on and I get older I tend to understand more and more. In fact, I believe it to be 100% true. When work is going well you don't notice how much you are working but when there is trouble at work you definitely notice more.
What happens if one friend is working full time but the other friend is working part time?
It happens and I get it. I know I am not the worlds best friend nor do I claim to be... but a friendship is a two way street.

Sorry, had to get that out...

On another note:
Can you believe that tomorrow is New Years Eve?
I feel like this year flew by, faster than any other year. What's funny is... I don't want to do anything. Nothing at all. I look forward to a three day weekend where I will be picking out my new countertops and painting my kitchen. I have decided on Misty Surf for the color, I think it will go nice with all of my red appliances.

What are your plans to ring in the New Year?

Two days in a row.. look at that!

2009-12-27T15:35:00.000-08:00

Ok so I feel like I have accomplished something today!

I found all of the prizes for Michelle's Shower at a super cheap price and they are way too cute! I has also completed her thank you cards, I will have the guests fill out their address on the matching envelope... that way she just fills out the card and can mail it off. Super easy and took me like 20 minutes to make them. I would post pictures but I don't want her to see them and ruin the surprise : )

It's been a LONG time.

2009-12-26T19:32:00.000-08:00

Lets see... What has been going on?
So, my last post was in June so it's been a few months.

July celebrated the Fourth at the Peoria Sports Complex, Kevin's Grandparents got us seats in the press box. They had to be the best seats in the park! We also hosted our annual 4th of July BBQ.

August we went to a wonder wedding for Lauren and Craig, Kevin was in the wedding. The wedding was at a beautiful golf course in Seal Beach.

September was my birth month : ). I had a bbq, got a tattoo on the inside of my wrist, Kevin was laid off and was offered a new job. My parents came to visit... it was a busy month.

October we went to the Hockey game (Ducks vs. Yotes). The Yotes won and I got to see Muhammed Ali!!!!!! How effin amazing!!!

November we hosted Thanksgiving for the 3rd year and this year went off without a hitch! Kevin bought these roasting ovens and it helped cook the turkey and ham in half the time and freed up space in the oven. Oh and did I mention I am going to be a GOD PARENT?!?!?! I am very excited and honored that my Bestie, Michelle and her husband Jr., would ask me to be a god mom. I had no idea that they would want me... I am just so excited to meet Atalie Belle and spoil the heck out of her.

December last weekend we went to California to celebrate Christmas a bit early with my fam and Kevins. It was nice to see everyone. I will post pictures as soon as my phone charges. This weekend we spent Christmas in AZ for the first time. It was nice to be home... it also allowed me to help my bestie for a few days. I was able to help her with anything she needed and I am still here if you need anything Michelle. I took Kevin to see the Suns vs. Clippers, the Clips lost : (
and I went shopping today for invitation paper for Michelles Baby Shower that I am throwing in Feb.

I think that is it for the recap : )

Until next time! XOXO, Tiff

My Brothers Wedding

2009-07-29T19:11:00.001-07:00

A few weeks I attended my brothers wedding and here are a few pictures.

Devons Game

2009-06-05T23:09:00.000-07:00

Wendy's bridal shower

2009-06-05T07:17:00.001-07:00

Chicago

2009-05-24T14:19:00.000-07:00

The Field Museum

The Chicago Skyline

Shedd Aquarium

one big fish and one giant man

our view

Lake Shore Dr

Outside the John Hancock building

The Storm Game

2009-05-24T14:02:00.000-07:00

I decided to treat my Father to a Storm game.

Thunder the mascot

Dance! Dance! Dance!

Dance Rabbit Dance!

The Quakes during the national athem

Go Peavy!!!

#14 the pitcher for the Storm

Cliff Floyd rehabing from the Padres

SSSSSSSSSSSSwing

Vlad rehabing from the Angels

We had a good time and were able to see so great Baseball.

Coyotes vs. Wild

2008-12-29T19:40:00.000-08:00

Kevin won tickets to this hockey game from a radio station and we had good seats. We were 9 rows from the ice and we could see everything and it was freezing! The Coyotes won and the Wild fans were not happy campers!

Oh Christmas tree, Oh Christmas tree...

2008-12-29T19:12:00.000-08:00

Our bare Christmas tree

Rocky hiding
Bruiser helping me check the lights

Ribbon

Some of the decorations

Close up

Our Christmas tree- lit up

L is for Love or Loken... either way you look at it, it means a lot.

Thanksgiving

2008-12-29T18:12:00.000-08:00

We hosted Thanksgiving for the second year and this one went smooth. I was able to do a lot of cooking in advance which made it nice on Thanksgiving. I was able to chat with my Mom and my Sister in Law while putting the finishing touches on each dish. I think everyone enjoyed themselves and it was great to see all the family that was able to make it. a wreath I made (not a very good picture)
Our tables

Mr. Scarecrow ( I got him for $4.00 at Hobby Lobby)

Tiff and Tenille

Grandpa, Ciara, Grandma

Again

Pumpkin spice cupcakes

My cute harvest sign ($1.50 at Hobby Lobby)

My pumpkin that Ginny gave me last year

Dinner is served

veggies anyone?

Family, it's the most important thing

My birthday

2008-12-29T17:11:00.000-08:00

We went to Pacific Beach, San Diego for my birthday. It was so much fun and I can't wait to go back. We stayed at Capri by the Sea adn it was right on the boardwalk. I was joined by great friends who I love and appreciate dearly and great fun!

Here are a few pictures... as you can tell there are no pictures of me because I was the one behind the camera : )

Tour of Diamondback Stadium (Chase Field)

2008-12-29T15:43:00.000-08:00

I know it's been forever since I have been on this thing.

I figured I could post a few pictures from our tour at Chase Field. It was really neat and we learned a lot!

Almost one year ago...

2008-07-22T07:18:00.000-07:00

I can't believe that I have almost been married for a year... one whole year. It's just crazy and it seems like it was just yesterday. It's also a little sad because I haven't seen some of the people in my wedding party in almost a year as well. Anyway, I ran accross some wedding pictures and thought I would post a few.

The girls getting ready.

First dance.

My mom and I.

Father/ daughter dance

best friends.

the winners of the bouquet and garter toss.

my niece and flower girl Neveah.

my favorite picture.

maid of honor and I.

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ReneBroughton Photography.

group photos:

The girls:

the guys:

www.bigbellycrew.com

2008-07-13T09:14:00.000-07:00

Since we were in the area we wanted to stop by Shane and Adam's store to see how they were doing the day before Shane's wedding. They recently opened a store and because we now live in AZ we haven't been able to check it out. I decided to take a few pictures of the outside.

The relflection of their van in the store window.

Big Belly crew Van

Banner above store

BBC baby!

Shane and Adam : )

It was really cool to see the store and to see the boys.

Balboa Island

2008-07-13T08:56:00.000-07:00

We had a free day while we were in California so we decided to go to Balboa Island. It's probably one of my favorite places just to go and relax. Everyone is friendly and the little shops are super cute.

55 freeway sign... oh how I used to complain about this freeway.

You don't see this in AZ

the restaurant across the way.

close up

the bay

a bench in Balboa.

the street we parked on.

someones dock.

It was nice just to walk along the boardwalk and snap a few pictures. One of my favorite stores was closing so I decided to pick up a few signs for the backyard. I'll post pictures of the signs later.

Shane and Tiffany's wedding

2008-07-13T08:34:00.000-07:00

Kevin and I drove out for Shane and Tiffany's wedding. It was so beautiful, laid back, and felt like we were in Hawaii. Everyone wore beach attire and were asked to take their shoes off before the ceremony. I was in charge of Shane's camera and Kevin took pictures with mine. Here are a few of the pictures Kevin took.

Here is what they were married under. The guys got there early and set up all of the plants themselves. It looked fabulous!

The best man, Adam and the maid of honor, Jennifer.

The bride, Tiffany, and her father.

That's Shane

That's Adam.

gettin hitched!

Mr. and Mrs. Bass

and there they go....

to live happily ever after.

I am so glad we were able to share in their special day. Kevin really does have the best friends you could find. Shane and Tiffany are such great people and you can tell they love eachother by the way they look at one another.

Rocky

2008-06-13T22:39:00.000-07:00

Just a few pictures of Rocky, he loves having his picture taken. I will post some pictures of Bruiser as soon as I get him groomed. He looks super shaggy from swimming.

Our trip to the Mytery Castle

2008-06-13T21:50:00.000-07:00

Sarah ran across the Mystery Castle while doing a bit of research on places to visit when she came out here. I have to be honest, I did not want to go here. I heard that the Mystery Castle was made out of trash and I couldn't understand why Sarah would want to take a tour. I figured I would only be losing $5.00 if I hated the place. After we met our tour guide and went in the first room I apologized to Sarah for being so close minded. I actually really enjoyed the tour.

This is what you see as you walk up.

This is the view of downtown Phoenix

Sarah and Jenna waiting for the tour to start

Myself and Jenna waiting for the tour guide to come get us

This is what the inside of a cactus looks like

Inside the house there is a room that they call the Chapel. Years ago people would get married in this room and the brides would leave a shoe. The story is that if they left a shoe behind then their husband would stay faithful. As you can see, some brides left two shoes : )

This is the what you see before you enter the chapel.

This is the original oven

This is the kitchen they use to this day

Sarah is ordering her drink from the wishing well. Hopefully the dumb waiter will get her order right this time.

Sarah and Jenna

The third story

Here is a quote from the spare bedroom

Jenna and I

This was actually a very interesting place to visit and it was a learning experience. I don't want to give anything away but if you have and hour to spare and $5.00 I suggest you go and take a look.

Girls trip to Sedona

2008-06-13T21:04:00.000-07:00

A few months ago I had two friends come out to visit me from California and I was so excited because I hadn't seen them since December. Sarah and I had been trying to plan where we could go for weeks and we finally figured out that the Saturday they were here that we would go to Sedona. I had been there once when I was about 9 and remembered how beautiful it was so I thought my friends would like it. The drive was nice but it seemed like it took forever. Once we got there it took us a while to find a parking spot but we ended up getting one in the front row (yes, the little things in life make me happy).

Our first stop was a bite to eat.

Here is the view from our table.

and the other side.

Our next stop was the Sedona Trolly. We took two different tours and they were actually pretty inteteresting. Did I mention that it was very windy. It was funny because Nicole and I couldn't figure out why there were blankets on our seats... and then the trolly started moving and we soon realized why they were there.

Nicole and I

Sarah and Jenna

Jenna, myself, Sarah, Sarah's new little friend, and Nicole

Sarah, Jenna, and I

Sarah, myself and Jenna on our way up the hill to the church

Nicole and I on our way down the hill after seeing the church.

It was a nice day away with a few good friends. None of us wanted to leave but we were tuckered out. We went back to my house and painted our nails, watched Juno, and played smarty pants on the Wii. All in all it was a very good day.

Our pool is finally done

2008-06-13T20:17:00.000-07:00

Our pool is finally done and I couldn't be happier. This has been a long process with many angry phone calls and emails to our salesmen, his boss, and his boss' boss. I would still never recommend the company we used but they did do a beautiful job. The funny thing is that I never wanted a pool, Kevin wanted a pool and now I don't know how we lived here without one. This is the first pool either of us have had to take care of, so it is a learning experience... but a fun learning experience. I am so excited to start having BBQ's and pool parties. I will have to post some pictures of the waterfall a little later.

The first one

2008-06-10T07:23:00.000-07:00

Hi all! I thought a blog would be a great way to keep in touch with friends and family. Especially because we are unable to see them as much as we would like to. We moved to Arizona almost a year ago ( wow how time flies ) and although we try to go back to California as often as possible, it's tough to see everyone we care about when we are there. Hopefully we can start to share our life a little.